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Ok TT,

I got a problem with my kid’s father. I’m a 26 yr old female with 3 kids; 2 of which are the with the same person. In the beginning he was good, fun and loving, now he’s not. I’m just tired of dealing with his BS. After having my second child I started falling out of love with him and I told him I was going to move on because I got tired of arguing and that sexually he wasn’t doing anything for me. Well, he didn’t like that and started telling me I would be his forever and that no matter what man I was with I would be his. I dismissed his talk and took myself out of the situation. Now, 8 months later he’s calling again talking about he wants to be with me and how things have changed. I told him that things hadn’t changed and that I no longer wanted him. In return he tells me that he won’t be in his kid’s life unless we’re together.

I told him that I wanted him to be there for the kids but that I wasn’t gonna deal with BS, wished him the best and told him to let me know what he was ready to be a man, But that he wasn’t going to use the kids to try to make me stay in a unstable relationship that I didn’t want to be in. My kids father is 38 TT. Why is he so immature and what should I do about it?

- Lost baby mama.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DAVEYSWORLD40/ DAVEYSWORLD40

    Homeboy can try to change as much as he wants to but at the end of the day she doesn’t want to be with him. He is obligated to be there for his kids regardless. If not she has a right to take him to court and get a restraining order against him. He needs to grow up and just move on. Just because she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with him anymore does NOT give him a right not to be in the kids lives.

  • Blogzworth

    The Kids are the most important in any relationship. But he shouldn’t worry about her its too many fish in the sea keep it moving and take care of them kids.

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