Ciara may be crazy in love but she definitely doesn’t want love to cloud her judgment, nor does she want to share. During a recent visit to Hot 97′s Morning Show, when asked if she’d give Future a cheater’s pass or allowance (similar to the one Brooklyn Net’s player Andrei Kirilenko gets from his wife), she responded:
First, we’re not even going to put that out in the universe.[…]At this point in my life, I don’t know what I’m going to say or do. [Have you left before for someone cheating?] Yes. Every time. Not instantly, because sometimes you don’t have full clarity and sometimes a person can lie so good that the lie sounds kind of true so you don’t really grasp what the reality is. When you get to the place within yourself like, I’m not dumb, then you have the strength to be like, I’m okay. Then you have the strength to say, ‘I’m out.’ Love can make you be blind.
This topic seems to be very fresh since Denzel Washington’s wife alluded to him cheating in this month’s Ebony. Also, Andrei Kirilenko’s wife gives him a cheating allowance which allows him to get it in with whomever he wants, once a year. She says,
“When I’m aware and I let him do it, it’s not cheating. What’s forbidden is always desirable. And athletes, particularly men, are susceptible to all the things they are offered. It’s the same way raising children – If I tell my child, ‘No pizza, no pizza, no pizza,’ what does he want more than anything? Pizza.“