Welcome back, I’m so glad girl talk is back because I need some advice! My mom passed away back in August and for the first time I’m doing thanksgiving at my house, which I don’t mind, the problem is I don’t want my brothers domestic partner to attend the dinner. I don’t agree with his lifestyle and I have two boys and I don’t want them to think that behavior is ok. However, I feel like I’m obligated to invite him because for years he has been invited to my moms thanksgiving and I don’t know how to tell him NO. I simply don’t want that behavior in my home what should I do?